Tech-savvy tweens
Ten years ago, 8-12 year olds were carting clunky Game Boys and checking the happiness stats on their virtual pets. Today’s tweens leave yesterday’s tweens in the dust of obsolete technology, a recent study found.
The Nielsen Company study looked at tweens’ mobile media and cross media behavior. It found that 35% of 8-12 year olds own their own cell phone. Twenty percent have used text messaging, and 5% have used their phone to access the Internet.
Tweens spend less time on the Internet, and they’re deserting TVs, CD players, and even computers. In Slate, Chad Lorenz noted that teens are abandoning email in favor of texting, IM, Facebook and MySpace. The Chronicle said colleges are creating podcasts and MySpace pages to communicate with students who think email’s passé.
The news prompts culture-watchers to think about the impact on communication and social interaction. Lorenz muses, “Email provides the breathing room to contemplate what we’re writing and express nuanced thoughts. … Instant messages, on the other hand, are like Post-it notes, handy for a few minutes but hardly worth saving.”
Stephen Salyers, assistant professor of communication at The King’s College, told WoW that technology may change the way that young people develop friendships and communicate with peers. “We typically befriend and maintain relationships through close proximity,” Salyers said, but with texting and IM and Facebook, friendships may change. “Do you create relationships with someone based on how quickly they get back to you or the types of information they’re sending you?” Salyers asked.
Technology changes, but human nature doesn’t, Salyers said: “In terms of contextual relationship communication I don’t think it so much matters. I think the real heart of the matter is people wanting to be known and wanting a certain degree of familiarity.”

















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Without delving into the question of how this changes the ways we communicate (who would ever have thought e-mail would give “breathing room” and be called “nuanced”), as a parent, despite being enamored of technology, I’m a Luddite. Daughter is 5 and has way too many toys, but none that are “high tech” (except a single elecronic book).
I can’t in my wildest dreams, imaging giving her a cell phone before high school, if even then. I simply don’t see a valid reason children need them. Same goes for internet access. If needed for a school assignment, it will be done with her mother or I in the room. It is too addictive of an activity, and there are too many other worthwile things for young people to be doing.
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All parents have these ideas about how “their” child will be raised.
The truth is, it depends on the child. Some children learn responsibility at an early age, others vandalize empty buildings. When all is said and sifted, parents only guide children and hope their children make the right decision make the right decision.
It’s like having a gay child. You can’t choose. The brainyest guy can have the most nerdy hi tech son, or the quarterback of the Super Bowl. The brawyest guy might have the next “Sugar Ray” or the next “Einstien” or just a “clerk”. No one will ever know.
All you can do is be the best parent you can and hope for the best. A good parent may be proud of their child’s huge success, but the best parent will love all of their children equally, regardless of success.
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Rdean, you’re so right about ‘the best parent will love all of their children equally, regardless of success.’
I have 6 children who are all so different. One is quite intelligent, and one is brain-damaged, one is very artistic and one is sporty, one is none of the above but just as treasured. They are all special and precious and unique.
One thing is for sure, my tweens don’t need cell phones or MySpace. They spend time with friends running around in the yard or hiking or going to Nursing Homes to sing or playing board games. They communicate with long-distance friends with pen and paper, or occasionally with e-mails that go through my account that I check.
This way I know who my children are communicating with, and also they are fit, healthy and happy.
My friend has a gay child. Although he is successful in other areas, choosing to live in sin isn’t a sign of success. We are praying for him to find his way to God’s Love and Laws. May a parent’s love always be guided by truth and wisdom.
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#3: Although he is successful in other areas, choosing to live in sin isn’t a sign of success.
Hopefully, he won’t be too damaged being around people who view his existance as a sin. Not a single child is ever raised “gay”. Some just ARE. Sexuality is an instinct, the same as self preservation and curiousity are instincts. There is no higher thought involved. Just like many creatures of the earth, their instinct tells them to point their attraction to members of their own sex. No made up laws by man will ever trump the natural laws give to us by nature. For a gay to love someone of the same sex is as natural as two straight people falling in love. To attempt to keep people from knowing the joys of being a human being and spending their life without the loving touch of any like minded human is evil indeed. Evil and cruel in equal measures.
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We are not just like many creatures of the earth, we do have higher thought, and will be judged by God, the righteous judge for how we use it.
True, no made up laws by man will ever trump the natural laws given to us by our Creator. That’s why laws condoning homoexuality leave people open to thinking that to follow wrongly directed lusts are so harmful.
The crucial issue is whether God’s Word is true, if you don’t believe it, you will think of some of His Ways as ‘evil and cruel’. But it is true, and His Ways are good and loving, just ask anyone who has come out of the ‘gay’ lifestyle, and into the grace of God.
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Thanks Joanneb for your thoughtful response. I am the father of a 12 year old “tween” soon and the bother of a gay man. Thought I was drawn to this conversation because i’ve pondered and struggled with how to set reasonalbe limits for my son …yet somehow still be able to allow him to engage the culture around him.
Yet as I hear what RDean has to say, I can sure understand the sense the many get that Christians are black and white about Homosexuality. I love my brother and I pray that he will someday know Jesus in a saving way. While I agree everything you say in the above comment, I have think more in terms of my brothers understanding of his (our) need for a Savior as Primary. Then, a very , very , far behind secondary issue is his homosexual lifestyle. were my bother to one day confess to live for Jesus, then he would have the Holy Spirit informing him as to what type of changes he may need to make in his life regard his homosexuality…as i have had to make with Drinking and tobacco etc….just my 2 cents.
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