A ministry you don’t want to know about
I wrote an article for WORLD two years ago about A Way Out, a ministry in Memphis that rescues women from prostitution and topless dancing. More than anything, I was struck by the fact that I just didn’t know many Christians who were down in the cracks of society looking for people to help. A Way Out is way down in the cracks, trolling for hookers and handing out Bibles, picking up hookers from apartments where pimps with guns want to shoot them (the volunteers), you name it. I thought about all this while reading an article about XXXChurch, who visits porn conventions and hands out Bibles that look like this:
In case you can’t read that, it says, “Jesus Loves Porn Stars,” and it’s a Bible.
There is no question that patrons and performers at the porn convention are open to [...] XXXChurch and the handful of other ministries. But after watching these interactions, I wasn’t sure how effective they were. A lot of people listened, few people turned down the “Jesus Loves Porn Stars” Bibles handed out by XXXChurch, but they seemed to think it was more kitsch than Gospel.
Craig Gross, who runs XXXChurch, told me that people ask him all the time whether he feels like he is making a difference. And at one point he wasn’t so sure. In his book The Dirty Little Secret, he writes about a guy who he thought he had helped free from the bondage of porn — only to find the guy later fly off the deep end.
Some Christians are cynical of Gross and his colleagues, claiming they’re a bunch of perverts who want an excuse to cavort with unnaturally endowed women. In a documentary, “Missionary Positions,” one of the guys from XXXChurch (I can’t remember who) gets smacked by a more fire-and-brimstone preacher who thinks Gross is doing the work of the devil.
There’s no doubt that a ministry like this should go where it needs to go, but there’s also no doubt that it’s dangerous, and not for the weak of spirit or the faint of heart.




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We must all try to be like Jesus!
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Grow long hair and a beard, wear sandels and robes?
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Who did Jesus hang out with while on Earth? Tax collectors, Gentiles, poor folks…and prostitutes. I’m guessing most of the guys hanging out around here must not have any problems with garbage on the Internet, or need filters…which XXXChurch.com provides free of charge.
Additionally, I’ve known of their ministry since starting grad school, and am so glad they’re around. SOMEBODY needs to reach out to these folks, besides the “fire and brimstone” people, who they’ll laugh at. Folks like Craig and the rest are being Jesus to the porn industry. They’re trying, essentially, to take all these thoughts captive to Christ’s Lordship.
I’m also guessing some of the folks commenting above might need their help too, since most guys have issues with this stuff.
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I’m guessing most of the guys hanging out around here must not have any problems with garbage on the Internet, or need filters…
Why are you guessing that, Kenneth?
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From a song from the 1880’s:
“She is more to be pitied than censured
She is more to be helped than despised
She is only a lassie who ventured
On life’s stormy path ill advised
Do not scorn her with words fierce and bitter
Do not laugh at her shame and downfall
For a moment stop and consider
That a man was the cause of it all.”
1894 song by William B. Gray
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In the only version I have heard sung it was by Julie Andrews.
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TRR,
I detected a little tongue-in-cheek/light sarcasm in Kennethos’ post, maybe.
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I knew a ministry in Chicago that did this, but it was women who were on the front lines (speaking to prostitutes and inviting them into a parked motor home for food and a chance to talk). Men went along, but stayed in the background to pray and to provide physical protection if called on. Sometimes they spoke to the same women week after week, and women sometimes showed interest in leaving the lifestyle, but they had few if any who actually left.
And a friend of mine was a missionary in another country for some years, the head of a home where prostitutes could go live, get training, and get out of the otherwise hopeless lifestyle. Some came pregnant. One was brought by a government official who had had sex with her before determining that he would help her. Later she turned up pregnant, probably by her “helper.”
This is front-lines ministry. But I don’t like making the gospel tacky, and Bibles that try not to look like Bibles. It is the Word of God, and it is holy.
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XXXChurch is an awesome ministry comprised of godly men who are accountable to each other. They debate the leading pornographers regularly and share the gospel at porn conventions (with a booth they rent and pay for). I’ve been supporting their ministry for several years now. God bless ‘em.
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The Word of God, BTW, is what’s written inside the covers of the Holy Bible. The cover of a Bible itself is no more holy than the pen we use to take notes.
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Glad there are more ministries like this in the states. I know of a few more. There is a mission group that sends teams regularly to Thailand(that capitol of sex-tourism) for a bar hopping ministry. Basically women go in and pull young boys and girls out of bars. Once the children are sure you are taking them to a safe house away from their pimps they are willing to make the break out of the hell that is their life.
Prostitution is not a victimless crime.
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Cameron,
I figured that too. Just wanted to know where it was coming from. I don’t think I’ve heard any denials here or suggestions that none of us has problems in that area. Naturally, we haven’t either had any confessions about it. Maybe that’s what Kenneth is hoping for. Less silence?
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I’ve met Mr. Gross and have talked with his team. It’s amazing to hear the stories of women who have been rescued.
These guys are serious about the destructive power of porn in the lives of Christian men and have online tools that are far superior to filters and such. Check out their accountability software . . . before you ever need it.
I used to work for a Christian publisher who turned down a large order for Bibles with XXXChurch’s design on the front and information in the front because they didn’t want to be associated with them. It was a dark day.
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By the way. . . . check out http://www.musicforthesoul.org/somebodys.html. Very powerful project.
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“Craig Gross, who runs XXXChurch, told me that people ask him all the time whether he feels like he is making a difference. And at one point he wasn’t so sure. In his book The Dirty Little Secret, he writes about a guy who he thought he had helped free from the bondage of porn — only to find the guy later fly off the deep end.”
I get this. My ex is addicted to porn and, the last I knew, was sleeping with prostitutes. Hence the divorce.
There was a time, though, where we all thought he would kick this stuff, but then he crashed. I could be wrong, but I doubt he’ll ever try again. He gets in places where it seems he kinda “plateaus,” or seems to be able to keep it all in control.
He is very active in his SBC church and singles group there. He is a handsome, successful, very intelligent, well educated, very knowlegable, man who grew up an MK, is bilingual, and has travelled the world. He’s a great-looking “package.” I imagine his singles group has no knowledge of his “other” life.
This addiction is nothing short of hell to be in and it’s even worse to get out of, and as the road to heaven is narrow, so is the road out of this addiction … and few take it … because it’s not a walk-in-the-park. It’s the worst hell has to offer.
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Most, if not all, prostitutes were sexually abused little girls. My dad sexually abused me as a little girl, and it’s nothing short of a miracle that God protected me in such a way that I never lived a promiscuous lifestyle. Out of four of us kids, my brother is addicted to porn (though denies it; he denies God, too); one sister got caught up in some really bad stuff where being promiscuous with boyfriends was mild compared to what she’d come out of; and my other sister also married a sex addict. I don’t know if any of them were sexually abused, too; but they probably were.
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It’s very, very sad what the porn industry has done to the hearts and minds of men and women and kids in our world today. But it’s not new … obviously my dad was a sex addict looong before the internet even existed, and my ex, too, as he got into it in the early 80’s.
Those who are on the front lines are fighting a war that will, more often than not, seem like a waste of time. Their successes will be very few. I couldn’t do it.
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I couldn’t do this ministry. I came out of a porn culture, and this would be too much. For the men that can do this, I say “God bless you!” However, the cynic in me says that this ministry would be akin to drinking just a little bit of poison every time.
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I agree with the idea of this being an exclusively women to women type of ministry. Men way off in the background absence from the actual ministry being done, yet prepared to come to the rescue.
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I’m glad for the people doing this. It’s togh but necessary, just like trying to save babies from abortion. I used to stand at the door of an abortion chamber, and a pimp came along about once a month with 4 or 5 young asian women to have their children disposed of. It broke my heart so much, I wept bitterly everytime I saw him coming. He was threatening and mean to me, how much worse it must have been for them.
If any of you come across a sex slave from overseas, try to get them away from the pimp and tell them about the T visa. The government works in concert with churches to protect and house them, they will NOT be deported (this is the big fear of most trafficking victims.) With a T visa they will get financial and employment help too.
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For a moment stop and consider
That a man was the cause of it all.”
Yeah, no woman is ever responsible for her life. Women are just hapless victims of men. Only men are sinners. Women are holy.
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Thanks for the headsup, JoannaB. The trolls and nonbelievers on this site laugh at the temptations facing us all, but they are a very real threat indeed.
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this venue of ministry is important today, and so are those who have the heart, experience, and equipping to deal with this.
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I *was* being saracastic, a bit, in what I wrote. I’ve seen the statistics on guys and the internet (not to mention gals as well), and know my own struggles. XXXChurch.com is a ministry we need, since it deals with a problem most folks don’t want to think about, deal with, or even open up about.
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This isn’t a ministry at all. It’s an abomination from the pit of hell.
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Bianca,
Are you saying those in the porn industry should simply be abandoned?
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The people involved in XXXChurch are bathed in prayer and encouraged by the Lord’s people, Bianca.
Remember the passage in Matthew when the Lord asks the Pharisees (when they accused Him and His disciples of using Satan’s power to expel demons) that it’s ridiculous to think that Satan would throw out demons?
Instead of accusing these godly men of being an abomination, why not try praying for them and their ministry?
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BTW, ever heard the expression: “Never judge a book by its cover”?
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