Something light (and hairy): beards
Meir Soloveichik writes about the tradition of beards among the Jews, and its metaphysical implication. He says that the beard is a sign of age, and a reminder that immortality is to be sought in grandchildren rather than in Botox.
By forbidding Jews to destroy their hair, the Bible warns them away from seeking the siren song of eternal youth. By encouraging Jews to grow beards, it reminds them that they will not be young forever, that they must prepare the ground for those who come after, just as their fathers did for them. In acknowledging their mortality, Jews are instructed to eschew aspiring to the condition of disembodied angels-for, as a midrash memorably instructs, angels cannot become parents who will instruct their children in the ways of the Lord.
I wear a beard. I think I started it in college so I would look older. But I was already bald by age 20, so I’m not sure why the beard was necessary. But it stuck, so to speak, and if I shave it now, my daughter will cry and my wife will make comments about my chin. But I appreciate Soloveichik’s thoughts. Makes me feel better.




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I wear a beard. I grew a moustache at age 18 to look older. A couple of years later I grew a beard for the winter, as many of the men in my church did. I thought I looked not just older, but better.
Like you, my wife likes my appearance better with the beard. I have an ugly chin.
My beard has been a problem for some Christians. I find that strange. I cannot imagine a biblical saint without one.
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A beard as a symbol of our mortality? I’d not thought of that before, but I’ll still wear mine, and not shave it off. Unfortunately for the biblical injunction, I regularly trim it.
Interesting subject…. I’ll keep this in mind as I think about our culture’s chase after eternal youth.
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I started wearing a goatie when I got engaged to my wife last summer, and kept it until just last month. My wife liked it because it made me look older. Not too long ago the whiskers on my chinny chin chin started coming in grey, so I can understand well the “symbol of our mortality” aspect. After reading this, maybe I should grow it back.
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Back when I did historical spots for the Christian Cable Network I worked for, I was always in need of guys with beards. Over the 19 years I did this it was easier sometimes and harder sometimes, depending on the style of the moment. But the last problem I ran into was that I needed a guy with long flowing hair to play the silhouette of an archangel. Short hair was in at the time and I ended up using a girl. Some of our viewers would have been appalled and demanded the removal of the spot.
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I take exception to this thread being something “light.” In a society that is so age conscious, with the boomers entering retirement, perhaps it is time to face up to mortality and take stock. I think the Jews have something here. If you don’t fight your mortality and honestly accept it, you’ll probably keep your eyes on your relationship with God.
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A sign of mortality, hummmm. I didn’t think I needed to be reminded of it and most certainly not by a beard. How about my knee pain or maybe my failing eye sight, those are good enough for me. Beards are OK on the right guy, they can be very attractive.
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My wife says she loves beards (particularly full bushy ones) but complains continuously when I try to grow one (’it’s scratchy’ is the refrain).
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I think nearly every man looks better with a mustache, and some also look better with beards. A culture that frowns on beards is a culture that has some problem with masculinity. A church that does so, seems to me, has some problem with the God who gave men beards.
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My husband started growing a beard when he retired from the military. I’ll love him with or without it, but I find him more attractive with it.
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I was told (surprisingly) that I could keep the handlebars (see avatar) at my work place if I keep them properly trimmed. I had a full beard at 25, and the mixed color of auburn and white didn’t settle too well. My wife likes the “bars” because I’ve had them for so long, it’d freak her out if I shaved them.
Meir says a beard is a sign of age. Methinks the GREY hairs is more of a sign of age. Not old age, mind you, because at 46.7569 years, I’m still climbing that “hill”, and ain’t over it yet.
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I personally like my husband clean shaven. He has a nice strong chiseled chin and I like to see it!
Some men look nice with beards – some don’t.
One of the pastor’s we’ve had came to our church with a handlebar moustache – it was the only way we knew him – after quite a few years, he shaved it at the request of his wife. It was just too weird and to this day, he still doesn’t look like himself and that’s been a few years!
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I agree with you, Cheryl. One thing about a man wearing a beard – he’ll never be mistaken for a woman.
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I’ve had my beard for about 3 years at this point. I grew it in a fit of laziness when I had a December where I wouldn’t be seeing any clients; since they never saw the messy in-between stages, it was ok from a work perspective. I had someone tell me to cut down to a mustache once, but that’d be tragic, as my facial hair is much lighter (read: dirty blond) on my upper lip.
My girlfriend rather likes the beard, but then again she barely remembers me clean shaven. I’ve thought lately about shaving, just because I’ve forgotten what my own face looks like, but then I realize that I’d have to shave every day again, and I change my mind.
It was a life-changing experience for me; I never had much facial hair in high school, so it was something of a personal victory to grow a full beard that didn’t look like I’d glued it on.
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You’d think that once you mature, a beard would be as full as it’s going to be. Funny thing is though, that as I age, I find more hair growing not only from my chin and upper lip, but it now grows out of my ears too…
God sure has a weird sense of humor.
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I want a beard, but the Mrs doesn’t like them. What I don’t like is the trend towards goatees. It makes most of the wearers look like they need to wash their face.
kbells- I wouldn’t have minded the female angel, as angels have no gender, do they? Yes, the Bible always refers to them in the masculine, but are they? (And do they have long hair? DO they have any hair? They are spirits and take the form of humans in Scripture.)
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Make it man – Are you sure it isn’t just migrating?
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I grew a van Dyke back in 1995 and have pretty much had it ever since. This past Christmas, I decided to stop shaving and now have a more or less full beard (though I still shave under my lower jaw a couple times a week). I’ll probably shave it off after the warm weather arrives (considering it snowed yesterday, that might be a while).
I grew the original beard because I have a weak jawline and because I have a nasty scar on my chin. Is that vain (Harrison Ford has a similar scar and he doesn’t have a beard, though he did have one for a while in “The Fugitive”).
In the U.S., beards are more a fashion statement that anything else, it seems. It is interesting historically to note that Lincoln was the first President with a beard, but every President that followed him (with the exception of Andrew Johnson, his V.P. who followed him) had some form of facial hair, up until the early 20th century (ending, I believe, with T. Roosevelt). Now, of course, I doubt if a candidate with a beard would even stand a chance of being elected President. Isn’t there something about a beard that makes a man seem “shifty” or the like?
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Since basically no one I know apart from my family has seen me without a beard, why I guess it’s here to stay. It started out hippie-shaggy (ooooh, I wince at the pictures), and now has gone to the very trimmed, very short ahem, “Professional” look. fwiw.
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“Are you sure it isn’t just migrating?”
Um… nope. If anything it’s multiplying. Thankfully, I do have a nice head of hair. If I can do anything, I can grow hair. I could sell it…
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I used to sport a winter beard which pleased my grandfather (”I threw my razor away in 1952″). Now I have to wear one to separate me from the kids I teach. My wife loves it but I get a wicked tan line when I shave after spending the summer on the field. My hair is migrating away from my five head, around the outside of the top of my head and down, down, down.
Can I get an “amen”?
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Sorry Panther… I’d give you some of mine if it were possible.. But I’m sure there are others that can empathize with your…. erm… recession.
I’m just thankful that I don’t have that problem in addition to the bad knee, painful hip, back back, sore shoulders and tense neck…. I’m aware that the greying beard isn’t the only thing reminding me of my mortality.
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So Harrison, I see you read Commentary. Good for you! I just responded to your article about lack of Jewish support for Evangelicals. When you read Commentary and think deeply about Jewish ideas, is your heart ever grieved on account of the blindness of my people? Does reading Commentary remind you to “pray for the peace of Jerusalem?” Or, do you merely find the articles quaint and informative for Christians?
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