Dead time for the brain = good time for the brain
Teresa Belton, a researcher in England, noticed something while reading a lot of stories written by children. They were boring and unimaginative. So she looked at their schedules and noticed they had very full, very exciting days. With absolutely no dead time. Which is to say, no time to daydream, to teach their minds to wander and imagine.
The problem with this habit, Belton says, is that it kept the kids from daydreaming. Because the children were rarely bored – at least, when a television was nearby – they never learned how to use their own imagination as a form of entertainment. “The capacity to daydream enables a person to fill empty time with an enjoyable activity that can be carried on anywhere,” Belton says. “But that’s a skill that requires real practice. Too many kids never get the practice.”
But it’s not enough to daydream. As this article suggests, you have to be smart enough to recognize when something in your daydream is worth remembering, like the man who invented Post-It Notes. So don’t kill your TV, but do keep it in a cage.




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And hang the cage in the back yard.
Your neighbor’s back yard.
The one with the pit bulls that don’t like you.
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My oldest child was four years old, aimlessly wandering around in the backyard with just the dog for companionship. (The same dog with whom the boy could be found standing on the rock wall barking at passing cars together . . . ).
I thought, “I should go out and play with him!”
But then another thought intruded: No. He has the rest of his life to be filled with people and noise. Let him be. He needs to swing on the swing and watch the clouds go by.
I’m glad I did that for a lot of reasons.
My mother, a teacher, used to say parents packed their children’s schedules so they (the parents) didn’t have to feel guilty about not spending a lot of time with their kids. I thought about her comment often over the years, and remembered how hard it is to hear the Lord sometimes–because He often speaks in a still and quiet voice. If we’re seldom quiet, bored even, it can be harder to hear and follow Him–not to mention the Holy Spirit–kids and adults alike.
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Of course my husband also uses this as an excuse for playing computer games–”I look like I’m playing a game, but I’m actually thinking of other things and problem solving.”
And I know I do my best plotting–novel-wise–when I’m day dreaming. So perhaps it unleashes a creative part of our brain when we’re not paying close attention?
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Good thoughts, Michelle.
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Are you perhaps thinking of the guy who discovered the structure of benzene? It came to him in a real dream, not a daydream. IIRC, the adhesive on post-it notes was the result of a laboratory mishap.
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Maybe he’s thinking of Velcro. The story is that the inventor had taken a walk and thought it up while picking burrs from his socks.
In addition to the TV, I’d recommend putting a limit on reading. My youngest uses books as a substitute for interaction with real human beings.
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Stubob,
I did that too – use books as a substitute for interaction with people, that is. It didn’t stop me from having a reasonably good imagination, but it made it pretty hard to portray people realistically in stories I wrote since I didn’t pay much attention to other people. Not to mention making it hard to make any friends, or knowing how to interact with people when I finally decided I wanted to.
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My son is very outgoing and has a lot of trouble dealing with not having someone to play with all the time. His friends have become too important to him to the point that he lets them run over him and tell him what to do. He has even disobeyed us when they told him too. My husband fears he will grow up to be a bully’s toady if we don’t do something about it now. As a result I tend to go out of my way to keep him entertained at home or take him somewhere fun in the afternoon. I’m beginning to regret that I have never taught him how to occasionally play alone. The few times he hasn’t had a choice, like when he is grounded or on vacation, he manages to come up with something to do and has shown a good imagination.
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Add to that, I’m a introvert who has found it hard to stay constantly engaged and entertaining. He doesn’t understand that mommy sometimes needs a little time in her own head.
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Our oldest was a reader, we had to boot him out the door. Our second was outside, we had to boot him in to a book. Our fifth cannot stand when others are reading and not entertaining her. We are working on that. It is important to have that free time for imagining. We had a great summer as the kids were weaned off of the busy life into a life of freedom. Now they are back in school and the troubles are coming back with the overactivity. It is not just parents overbooking, teachers are too. (Some teachers, our teachers, not all teachers, there are very good teachers who love to teach and understand kids, I am not talking about them).
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Dead time for the brain = good time for the brain
I thought for sure this was the third Sarah Palin personal interest post of the morning.
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TV actually makes me daydream and think about things in some depth but I don’t watch MSM or anything else that will turn your brain into mush either. TV is the best teacher and purveyor of knowledge ever invented by man. There is no question about it. The media is the message.
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Pauline’s #7 is a pretty good description of me also.
Our granddaughter gets lots of structured activities, but her mommies are pretty good about letting her have lots of unstructured time and at times letting her structure our time.
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Michelle #3 – (What you said) is why mowing the lawn was (before my son took it over) my favorite “household” chore. Brainless physical activity that leant itself well to contemplation…
StuBob – my eldest sounds like your youngest. Nose buried in a book most of the time and whines that her less-bookish more creative sister has all the friends.
Mumsee – like you, we’re working on it. All of the “its” that are evidence of unbalance in our kids’ lives. Such a blessing to have three who are so different from each other and can learn from each other.
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I grew up with my nose constantly in a book. If I was outside, I was observing birds or insects. I wanted friends, but didn’t know how to make them, so in a sense, the world of books contained my friends. Right now I’m working on a series of books for little girls with gentle guidance on how to make friends (the series is fiction). And yes, even today when I am not editing a book or writing a book, I’m most likely to be reading a book.
But in the times in childhood when I wasn’t reading or doing something else, such as the half hour or more I lay awake each night after my sister had gone to sleep, I was daydreaming–imagining what I’d do as an adult or making up stories. My sister and I made up stories with our dolls, and I knew from the time I was little that I wanted to write. Even today, in downtime I make up silly stories. I’ve always thought I could handle boredom better than almost anybody I know; if there’s nobody to talk to and nothing to read, I can still pray and think.
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Writing counts as time spent with the imagination, right?
I love to write more than anything. My stories have almost no practical value–I write about pirates and manticores and superheroes and evil emperors that get killed in the end–but I love them.
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Good for you opinionated teen. I too write every day. I write in a journal. I started writing in one when i was 20 years old when my mother asked me keep one while I was in Nam. She was very smart lady and I loved her very much.
Now some 35 years later, my many full journals will one day be a book called The Tales of Llamadom. I would advise you to write in journals so that you can easily catalog them and every page will be in chronological order. I scan everything and back it up on the computer for final editing.
I too don’t care what anyone else thinks or even care about its value since products have such little value as it is anyway. The value lies in the process and scarifices you make in its creation adn what you learn along the way. The giving up of wanting and the doing of everything required instead is the best way to get anything done and done well.
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I was blessed with lots of daydreaming time throughout life, at school I’d finish my work in half the time allotted, then stare out the window and daydream…on the commute to university I daydreamed on the bus and train and often missed my stop… now I save my daydreaming for when I’m hanging out clothes on the clothesline.
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Llama
Blech, who wants to spend time writing about real life? I have enough reality in my reality as it is.
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