Punk-loving Muslim girl finds her own way
The Los Angeles Times this morning has an interesting front page story about a Muslim teen growing up in Texas. Like a lot of teens, Hiba Siddiqui keeps secrets from her parents as she tries to reconcile the values they’ve taught her with her own discoveries about the world. When her father comes home from work, for example, she quickly changes clothes:
Hiba slips out of the white T-shirt with black letters that read “HOMOPHOBIA IS GAY,” which she wore to Kempner High School, where she is a junior. It’s one of a collection of slogans the 17-year-old has silk-screened on T-shirts in her bedroom, unbeknownst to her parents, both Muslim immigrants from Pakistan.
There are other aspects of Hiba’s life lately she thinks they might not approve of either, like the Muslim punk music she has been listening to with lyrics such as “suicide bomb the GAP,” or “Rumi was a homo.” Or the novel she bought online, about rebellious Muslim teenagers in New York. It opens with: “Muhammad was a punk rocker, he tore everything down. Muhammad was a punk rocker and he rocked that town.”
This much Hiba knows: She is a Muslim teenager living in America. But what does that mean? It is a question that pesters her, like the other questions she is afraid to ask her parents: Can she still be a good Muslim even though she does not dress in hijab or pray five times a day? If Islam is right, does that make other religions wrong? Is going to prom haram, or sinful? Is punk?
Hiba’s story provides interesting insight on both the growing prevalence of Islam in America (10 years ago, could anyone have imagined a 100-member Muslim Student Association at a high school in Sugar Land, Texas, the home turf of Tom DeLay?), and the travails of Muslim teens navigating an America that has a chip on its shoulder about Islam.




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back to top9 Comments to “Punk-loving Muslim girl finds her own way”
Ishmael’s people have come a long way, it appears.
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I hope this “westernized” gal isnt killed by her dad like the Egyptian cab driver killed his two “Americanized” teen daughters.(He is as far as I know still at large, by the way).
I dont know if this father reads WMB. I hope he has no friends monitoring it.
And I wonder how hip and groovy this girl thinks Sharia law is?
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Sawgunner, I had a similar reaction: “I hope this ‘westernized’ gal isnt killed by her dad….”
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No wonder the parents of Islamic kids want to blow them up to kill innocent Jews, Americans and Israelis.
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My boy asked me when he was 9 or so, “Dad, do you ever wonder if what we believe as Christians is really true?”
“Excellent question!”, I responded, “How do you know whether ANYTHING is true?”
Blank, helpless, deer-in-the-headlights look.
“Evidence and reasoning, on the one hand, and “somebody says” on the other”, I says.
And I says, “and if you ask someone who says a thing, “How do you know that?” they will respond with either evidence and reasoning, or somebody says.
Evidence and reasoning can be right or wrong, and what somebody says can be right or wrong, but they are the means of discovering the truth, used by courts of law and scientific papers, for instance.
A lot of people think Christianity is based solely on “somebody says”, but there are volumes of evidence and reasoning why Christianity is true.”
I wonder what Hiba’s father’s response would be if she asked him the same question my boy asked me.
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The description could fit many of the girls I teach especially the conflict between what is religion and what is culture, the two are often mixed up. And like my non-Muslim students, they have adopted the mostly liberal social ethos that exist in Canada.
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Just as the post modern culture has swallowed up much of the church in America and Europe, the post modern materialist culture will swallow up most muslims too after a generation or two. Not sure if this is good or bad.
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Was anyone else a little shocked that the LA Times identified this girl down to her full name, her high school, and her photo? Presumably her parents agreed to all this (and her mother comes off as a fairly wise parent to a teenager in the article) but I gotta wonder …
Given the real and recent history Sawgunner mentions, I wonder if it would even dawn on the Times that they contributed, should the unthinkable happen and some militant self-appointed defender of Islam track this girl and her family down?
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Raisin’ kids is tough ain’t it?
We went to First Night (New Year’s) in Boston and saw a Muslim female comedienne. She was pretty funny. She said her parents didn’t think she was funny. That was funny!
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