Lost in translation
Last month, media outlets wasted no time in pouncing on a new study questioning the effectiveness of abstinence pledges. “‘Abstinence-only’ is a total crock,” “Abstinence isn’t enough,” and “Premarital Abstinence Pledges Ineffective, Study Finds“ were just a few of the headlines purporting the study proved that teenagers who take virginity pledges are no less sexually active than other teens.
But according to Wall Street Journal columnist William McGurn, the headlines are not only misleading but also untrue. He writes that the only way the study could reach such results was by comparing teens who take a virginity pledge with teens who are just as religious and conservative.
The first to notice something lost in the translation was Dr. Bernadine Healy, the former head of both the Red Cross and the National Institutes of Health. Today she serves as health editor for U.S. News & World Report. And in her dispatch on this study, Dr. Healy pointed out that “virginity pledging teens were considerably more conservative in their overall sexual behaviors than teens in general — a fact that many media reports have missed cold.”
What Dr. Healy was getting at is that the pledge itself is not what distinguishes these kids from most other teenagers. The real difference is their more conservative and religious home and social environment. As she notes, when you compare both groups in this study with teens at large, the behavioral differences are striking. Here are just a few:
- These teens generally have less risky sex, i.e., fewer sexual partners.
- These teens are less likely to have a teenage pregnancy, or to have friends who use drugs.
- These teens have less premarital vaginal sex.
- When these teens lose their virginity they tend to do so at age 21 — compared to 17 for the typical American teen.
- And very much overlooked, one out of four of these teens do in fact keep the pledge to remain chaste — amid much cheap ridicule and just about zero support outside their homes or churches.
McGurn says the story’s real headline should have been “Religious Teens Differ Little in Sexual Behavior Whether or Not They Take a Pledge.” But unfortunately that “is not something you’re likely to read in the headlines,” McGurn notes. ”For when it comes to challenging the conventional wisdom on issues of sexuality, the American media suddenly become as coy as a cloistered virgin.”




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Thank you very much. The original “news stories” and their arresting headlines were indeed discouraging. A good reminder that I need to be very careful and discerning when looking at the news.
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Does this mean that I should take everything in the news “with a grain of salt?”
I shouldn’t believe everything the MSM tells me?
No, don’t tell me that the news didn’t get it right?
Rush was right?
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Now, considering that we are only talking about what is effective in churches, should this result do anything to change how we think kids ought to be taught in public schools? If abstinence pledges are hardly effective for already religious & conservative kids, what makes us think that teaching it to kids who aren’t religious & conservative is going to make any impact?
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Also, what Rosenbaum did in the study is “duh!” study methodology: when you design a study, you design it so that way you control as many variables as possible: ideally, you would compare 500 people who took a pledge to 500 identical people who didn’t to see what the effect of the pledge is or isn’t. It’s how scientific inquiry is done.
Comparing sexual behavior teenagers who are religious & conservative to teenagers who aren’t would be an entirely different study. However, it is totally unfair to criticize Rosenbaum’s study just because it unveils the ugly little secret that abstinence pledges aren’t particularly effective. This shouldn’t be surprising to any follower of Christ who has ever been a teenager– we need strong discipleship, accountability, solid preaching & teaching, prayer, and family support to deal with the temptations we face.
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No one has ever figured out a way to bring human sexuality under effective control. Posting messages about it on a religious web site has to be the least effective of the least effective methods. I await Victoria’s usual inspiring contribution with anticipation, except I will take a month off so I will miss it.
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No one has ever figured out a way to bring human sexuality under effective control.
So you believe that humans have no control over our sexual behavior? We should all resign ourselves to the idea that we’re ruled by our hormones, and we should just stock up on condoms and expect to go around “rutting like rabbits?”
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Wait a minute–”one out of four of these teens do in fact keep the pledge to remain chaste.” Seventy-five percent do not?! I rather doubt the number is that high, since last I heard the numbers of all sexually active teens wasn’t that high. (I assume they’re not just including “technical virginity” and they’re counting sexual sin short of intercourse as inchastity, as they should. Still, a 75% failure rate is failure and cannot possibly be construed as success of any kind.)
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#6 Ree, I believe Random Name’s metaphor of choice is “fornicating like crazed weasels.” (See his comment under Bradley’s post.) Either way, his last paragraph in #5 gives him away a bit. He really does know that even in the heat of our passions we can make better and worse choices. (Random, why are you taking a month off?)
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Cheryl D– I believe that it isn’t just teenagers that the study is referring to (although I would not be surprised if teens are that sexually active.) Rather, 75% of the pledges are broken before marriage– that is, 75% of the teenagers who make an abstinence pledge have sex before marriage, whether that’s at 16 or 22. I have read elsewhere that half of the rest (so 12.5% or so) go further physically than they wanted to. As a young person who did not make any pledge except one to repent of my sin and seek to follow, love, and obey Jesus, I’ll say that abstinence is very hard no matter what culture you live in and how religious or conservative you are. We need good discipleship and strong community, not a bunch of silly rallies where everyone stands up and promises to do something that is near impossible without the persistent, patient love & grace of Jesus.
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Kristin Chapman loses no time pouncing on the WSJ opinion pages.
The WSJ doesn’t discover a blessed thing wrong with any of the MSM headlines, which all declared that virginity pledges don’t mean much. The WSJ’s point isn’t that the headlines are wrong, but, “So What?”
The WSJ proposes a better headline: Religious Teens Differ Little in Sexual Behavior Whether or Not They Take a Pledge.
But how is that “So What?” any better than the MSM “So What?” The WSJ doesn’t say.
And, if Christian teens start having vaginal, premarital sex at 21 instead of 17, so what?
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One can find individual humans who conduct themselves in a sensible way in regard to sexuality, though quite a few of those have difficulty or “fall” and keep it secret.
My wife and I have been faithful for 43 years. I often had unfaithful thoughts, and an one occasion was very tempted with someone who showed every indication of being ready to party. I am shy, introverted, and not especially sexy. In the case I speak of, I also channeled the movie Fatal Attraction. It wasn’t that hard; during the time we worked together, she divorced her first husband. She celebrated (I am not making this up) by throwing her television out her apartment window. (She lived on the fifth floor.) Aside from the other impediments, I decided not to get into bed with this woman on the fifth floor of her apartment. (How she explained the mess of her television set smash parts I honestyly don’t know.)
During the time I knew this co-worker, she “slept with” at least three other people I knew. (They all survived, though the wife of one found out about the affair.} Years later, I heard from her again. She had married again and may have settled down.
I only learned a year ago, that my father had several affairs in the first years of his marraige. My wife only learned a couple of years ago that her parents both had several affairs in the early years of their marriage. Her mother was married twice. Her father was married six times. Can you spell serial infidelity?
Seriously, take Sarah Palin’s daughter, for example. Sarah is an intelligent, forceful, strong woman. Whether or not she would have made a good Vice President I don’t know. [Also, seriously.]
She couldn’t keep her daughter on the straight and narrow. The evaluation of her success here is that her daughter did not have an abortion. I am not making fun of that. [See my posts about abortion I will post in a few minutes.]
But you are in denial and wishful thinking that conservative Christians are in any better shape in regard to controlling human sexuality than anybody else.
As we look at groups of people, ranging from secular liberal people to conservative religious fanatics, I know of no group that has really had success in controlling human sexuality, especially among the young, though there are plenty of old fools as well.
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#11
I knew it!
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Men Like Trees, OK, that discrepancy would explain the 75% (that they aren’t all teens)–but still, 75% of such pledges are broken before marriage? Considering some Christians don’t even make such a pledge in the first place (I myself never made a “formal” one), and those who don’t make such a pledge are probably even more likely to fail, that’s simply failure, not success, by any measure, if it is true. (I am NOT saying sexual sin cannot be forgiven. I am saying the church is doing something radically, radically wrong if this is true. In my own “circle,” it’s not true.)
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Cheryl D.–
if you are surprised at the failure, I’d say that’s the first step. I completely agree with you: the church is doing something radically, radically wrong. We are going for quick, jazzy-sounding solutions instead of good Bible teaching & discipleship. We are pounding a pulpit and blathering on about how great abstinence is instead of forming communities where teens can support one another and be supported through the tough choices they have to make. We are holding up abstinence as a value without doing what it takes to live out that value.
A lot of people either don’t know how it’s going to be or forget how hard it was, and they assume that if you just stand up and make a commitment it ought to be easy. We as a church have to stop pretending about what the challenges are and build our communities in such a way that we can honor God with our bodies.
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Random Name,
There was a great article on Slate that summarized the book “Forbidden Fruit” which basically says what you say– evangelical teens tend to be just as terrible as their non-evangelical peers when it comes to sexual morality.
However, when you control for everything else and look at what they call “religiosity”– that is, how often they attend church, read their Bibles, pray, serve in mercy ministry, etc.– the numbers jump way up. In fact, this subset of Christians has high correlations for all sorts of positive attributes, as explored by Ron Sider in his book “Scandal of the Evangelical Conscience”: Giving, serving, volunteering, seeking justice for the poor, etc. And Christians would say to that, “Duh… if you’re a Christian and you’re actually repenting & trying to follow Jesus, of course you’re more likely to do it.”
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“Typical was the lead for the CBS News story: “Teenagers who take virginity pledges are no less sexually active than other teens, according to a new study.”"
By not specifying that the “other teens” were also motivated members of church groups with high parental involvement in their lives, the headline suggests that those who made chastity pledges were as sexually active as teen gang members. The others headlines cited, although less egregious, are as likely to mislead unless the proper context is given. There is nothing wrong with public committment ceremonies and promises, but if the support system is missing, those public proclamations will provide little protection against raging hormones.
By not supplying the necessary context, both chastity oaths explicitly, and the underlying faith support implicitly, are discredited, comforting those with the illusion that “because these kids will do it anyway,” adults should just wink, nod, avert their eyes, and hand out contraceptives like candy.
“And, if Christian teens start having vaginal, premarital sex at 21 instead of 17, so what?”
Well for one, they wouldn’t be teens. A twenty-one year old would also be more likely to have finished high school, be in a better position jobwise to care for the child, less likely to compound their situation with multiple children before they’re financially, socially, and emotionally ready for parenthood, and have matured enough to better cope with the emotional trauma of severed intimate relationships. Physical intimacy intensifies emotional attachment. Divorce is devastating to adults. It is no accident that a rise in teen suicide accompanied a rise in teen sexual behavior.
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KEN — You still don’t explain what difference it makes to delay vaginal, premarital sex from the age of 17 to 21. Children are not a necessary result.
Y’all overlook the finding that virginity pledges merely decrease the likelihood that well-indoctrinated Christians will use birth control when they start having vaginal, premarital sex.
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Scroop, no, they don’t “merely” decrease that likelihood; they also increase the likelihood that teens will abstain from sex. Maybe a public ceremony doesn’t do much or anything for that, but a young person who is fully committed to abstinence, places commonsense boundaries in place to protect herself from undue temptation, and relies on God for His help is more likely to stay pure.
You know what? If my unmarried teen or young adult child was having sex before marriage, I’d find it NO comfort that he/she was using birth control. None whatsoever. Not only is avoiding pregnancy not the biggest concern with premarital sex, but the young person would still be vulnerable to STDs along with sinning against God and opening herself to heartache. So no, on a scale of one to ten, finding out that she was at least using birth control wouldn’t even register a one on my “relief” scale. The birth control might even make her feel some sense that it was “OK” to fornicate, and it would tell her that having a baby is worse than having premarital sex, which is completely upside-down thinking. So I’m not at all on the side of those who say, “If they’re going to do it anyway, at least give them some protection.”
Now, if you say, “If they’re going to do it anyway, at least let them get married”–even if they’re sixteen–I’m a little more open to that, though of course I do think that teens don’t “have to” have sex, and that partners shouldn’t marry until they’re ready for marriage. But I’d sign for my sixteen-year-old daughter to get married before I’d sign for her to get the Pill.
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Cheryl D.– If an unmarried teen or young adult was using condoms as birth control, they would be far less vulnerable to STDs.
We have to consider the public health consequences of the actions that people are going to take, and it is very unlikely that a government campaign or a school education is going to stop people from doing things that even devout Christians often end up doing when they don’t want to. We can be deeply concerned about the spiritual and emotional turmoil that people will bring on themselves through premarital sex, but Gospel witnessing to them is the most effective way to prevent that– not having some government lackey tell them about abstinence. Do you really think that a lot of kids are going to refrain from having sex devoid of the power of the Holy Spirit and just because someone in school told them that it’s a bad idea? Public health & social integrity are important things, and using condoms is going to be a more effective way of dealing with both.
If we’re talking about your own children, that is of course a different matter altogether and I cannot comment on what you should do, nor can I say for sure what I would do (since I don’t have any kids of my own.)
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Men Like Trees,
This is an old thread, and you may not see it. No, I don’t think that teaching abstinence in schools is likely to make a lot of kids abstinent–although it’s sure a lot better than teaching casual sex. However, condoms do very little for STDs–nothing at all for HPV, for instance, the most common STD today. If used improperly, they’re also ineffective for HIV, which is of course the most deadly STD. And they give kids a false sense of protection (”if I use them most of the time, I’ll be OK”), though they do little for STDs, they aren’t terribly effective as birth control, and they do nothing at all for the other problems of premarital sex. In other words, no, I don’t even think it’s a good idea to push the benefits of condoms in a secular setting, since doing so actually puts kids in MORE danger.
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Cheryl D.,
I’m still reading this thread, and I did want to respond to some of the things you said. I will say beforehand that I am a medical student– and I say that not to imply that my superior medical knowledge makes me an expert on the subject, but to imply that I am coming from a more secular public health perspective. In the health field, we go for harm or risk reduction and not the ideal– if an obese patient goes from a BMI of 37 to 33, we consider that a success because they are still obese but their risk of certain complications has gone down. My perspective on how to handle this within the body of Christ is very different, and I believe that it has already expressed pretty clearly in #9 and #15 (as well as in other threads.)
I don’t mean to be disrespectful to you, but you are misinformed about HPV & condoms– it is simply not true that condoms do “nothing at all” to prevent HPV transmission. The transmission of HPV is not 100% prevented by condom use, but it is reduced by 30-70% (depending on which study you read.) Trust me, I used to think the same thing (probably heard it from similar sources in evangelicalism until I came to school. One such study is here.
Other STDs– chlamydia, gonorrhea, HIV, syphilis, & HSV– are very well prevented by using a condom, as is pregnancy. Remember that we are talking about risk reduction, not risk elimination– if you look at 100 teenage sexual encounters with a condom and 100 teenage sexual encounters without one, the latter group is going to wind up with far more STDs and unplanned pregnancies than the former group.
Let’s do the math on this: suppose you have 100 teenagers that are going to have sex. Let’s say that all 100 sit through a lecture on abstinence and receive no education about safe sex practices. 30 decide not to have sex as a result of the lecture (and that is being very generous) and the other 70 do it anyway. That’s 70 kids at risk for becoming pregnant, getting an STD, etc. and that takes a toll on public health all across the nation.
Suppose instead that all 100 sit through a lecture on safe sex practices and this time 90 decide that it’s okay for them to have sex. Let’s say that 10 of them decide not to have safe sex anyway and 10 have a malfunction or use the wrong method. This time, you’ve reduced your risk dramatically! Your thesis about condom education putting kids in more danger is simply not true.
Getting a “false sense of protection” from using condoms is like getting a false sense of protection from wearing a seatbelt– they are statistically proven to work in reducing harm, not eliminating risk.
When we are talking about people outside the body of Christ, I think we need to encourage things will generally encourage behavior that will lead to less disease and fewer unplanned pregnancies (I do not support abortion in any way whatsoever, but if a teenage pregnancy can be prevented I am very much in support of it.)
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