I’ve got mine
Even among Christians—or I should say, even though I am a Christian—there is a streak of “I’ve got mine.” There is a tendency to be OK with the world as long as “I’ve got mine”: I have a decent job, I have a respectable family, I have passable intelligence, I have passable looks, I have enough friends, I have a relationship with Jesus. I’ve got mine. It’s the feeling of finding a seat when the music stops in “musical chairs.”
I think there is a medical school syndrome similar to this. One notes a curious heart transformation, or amnesia, that transforms a first year student, who was made miserable by mean upperclassmen, into a second year student who is content to slip into the attitude of the class that once showed her no pity. “I made it, why can’t they?” Or, “I’ve got mine.”
The Christian version is, of course, not malicious like that. It’s more of a benign or passive resting in the relief that “I’ve got mine”—the relief that one is out of danger, out of the woods, into safety, on the right track, tracking with everybody, looking good. And surely we are right to be relieved about these things, and to take our rest in Christ.
I like the Apostle Paul. He said some amazing things that tipped me off that he is not the run-of-the-mill “I’ve got mine” kind of Christian: “For I wish that I myself were accursed and cut off from Christ for the sake of my brothers” (Romans 9:3). (See also 2 Corinthians 13:7.) Imagine, feeling torn between being with Christ, who is better than life, and being bereft of Christ if by that choice you could save someone else. Come to think of it, it’s actually what Jesus himself did.
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Unfortunately, such an attitude can be all too common when we hear news of the trials or misfortunes of others. Instead of empathizing with them, we think, “Gosh, I’m so glad that’s not me (or us).” I find that empathy comes much easier if I consciously seek to immediately pray for the person or people as soon as I hear the bad news (or even pray with them).
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“Imagine, feeling torn between being with Christ, who is better than life, and being bereft of Christ if by that choice you could save someone else.”
Some people do feel this way.
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I am not there yet. I have empathy in abundance, but not to the point where I understand Paul here. I cannot imagine being willing to go through eternity without Christ. I cling desperately to Him. I want others to join me and do believe I could give up my life for others. But I cannot imagine being willing to give up His salvation. Perhaps He is still working in me.
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Seems like I once heard that Sarah Edwards (Jonathan’s wife) said that she would be willing to spend eternity in hell if it would glorify Christ. Not sure if this is true or not. But there is a bit of parallelism with Paul.
Mike
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Mumsee – Aren’t you glad God doesn’t make us make that choice? I am.
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How interesting that you should raise this subject and use the term “I’ve got mine.” I meet with eight or ten other men, mostly from the church I attend, for informal chat and eventually getting down to a book study, currently Os Guinness’s Time for Truth.. I think we drifted off the subject for a while and one man said the “capital-C” Church was failing to reach others by failing to witness effectively. I said I thought the prevailing thought was “I’ve got mine”; I’m secure, let the others fend for themselves. Totally unbiblical and unChristian, of course, and I stand guilty by my own accusation. It’s not exactly that I am afraid to approach my unchurched neighbor — they’re nice people, by the way — but I shortchange the Holy Spirit when I think it’s all up to me and it would simply be a wasted effort.
I pledged to myself that I’ll make this a matter of concentrated prayer.
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Karen O,
Yes, indeed. His Sacrifice was sufficient for all. No need or way for us to save others.
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You guys would never make it as professional poker players.
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Years ago I was pulled up short with that verse by Paul. See, I’d debated internally whether a Christian was required to love others so much that we’d be willing to go to hell for another, and had finally given myself a good, spiritual answer: Of course not. After all, we’re supposed to love Jesus more than we love people, and being willing to go to hell is being willing to be separated from Jesus, so we can’t be willing to go to hell. (Whew!) Sometime later I read that verse and was pulled back on my haunches like a dog on a chain.
I do think one thing that makes it difficult is the modern understanding that witnessing is showing oneself superior, being unloving, etc. We see this on this site all the time, with unbelievers saying that anyone who’d tell another he’ll go to hell for not believing in Jesus is showing a crass moral superiority; that anyone who merely says Christianity is true (without even mentioning hell) is arrogant. I have a neighbor who’s similarly resistant, and other neighbors with Muslim background (from Iraq). All the other neighbors I know, which is quite a few, are Christians, or claim to be. But how does one sneak past that sense that if Christians despise us for witnessing, actually see the act as unloving and proud, we are still commanded to do it–and it is in fact still loving to do it?
(Last weekend at my writing group my writing friends were truly horrified that I had my little girl character witnessing to someone. They thought her too nice to do such a thing, and were suggesting more “positive” ways to deal with the scene. Me, I thought that showing a child character witnessing was a good example to readers of how to love an unbelieving friend!)
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Something to ponder:
Night Train,
You are funny.
I’m glad you’re here…God is working.
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