The not-so-pearly gates
My oldest daughter and I are visiting family in Maine this month and decided the other day that we would use the rainy day to go find the home of author Stephen King in Bangor. Driving through the winding, hilly, curving roads of Route 1A, we hit town about 11 in the morning and proceeded to feel our way toward his house.
A realtor I ran into earlier in the week told us his house was on Ohio Street, so after much ado, we exited Route 1A, turned left on Union Street, which turns into Ohio, passing Bangor Theological Seminary on the left and driving straight up the hill, each of us peering out our respective windows, looking for King’s tell-tale bat covered wrought-iron gate that we’d seen in a children’s ABC book about Maine. (He’s under K, by the way.)
It all seemed a go. My cousin told us his house was on the hill up from Bangor, and since we were moving uphill at about 55 mph on Ohio Street, we were surely on the right path. That is, until we drove far into the countryside where the scenery turns from beautiful, well-preserved Maine homes to those of the trailer variety, and realized, Stephen King would not live out here.
Back we went. Down the hill, past the seminary, my daughter calling my son at home to have him Google King’s address. Number one listing, Stephen E. King, age 60-64, wife, uh, Tab-ee-tha? Yep, that’s the one. Now, MapQuest: 47 West Broadway. Got it. Off to Broadway. Go south until the street changes to State. Turn around in industrial area, go north, back to houses, each time, stopping every few feet for some of the longest lights I’ve ever experienced. House numbers go up to 890 before we quit. Turn around, getting hungry by now. Call Ben back. He has Emily turning the map this way and that, telling us to hold one hand at a northeast angle, then crossing the other at 90 degrees. Look for Cedar. See Hammond Park? We try. No park. No Cedar. Gosh I’m hungry.
Finally, we stop at a gas station. We are on the wrong Broadway. Two exits south on I-95, exit Union, go south, past Bangor Theological Seminary, just two blocks, go right, and yes, there is his house, bat gate and all. We are currently four blocks from where we exited Route 1A in the beginning, two hours ago. He was right here all along, not sequestered in a gated community on the outskirts of town, hidden away from obnoxious fans such as ourselves, but living in a beautiful, but not ostentatious, house, right smack dab in the middle of an ordinary neighborhood, probably making tea and plotting his next novel while we tramped all over Bangor proper hunting him down.
As a believer, I usually try to find God the same way I tried to find Stephen King. I listen to this person or that person, read a few books, wildly guessing which way He might be. I veer south, don’t find Him, so veer north, head up hills into the hinterlands, come up empty, go back down, dial in for rescue, getting hungrier all the time. Finally, in frustration and only as a last resort, I ask for help, get directions, follow the road, and realize He was right there all along. In fact, I passed Him several times in my frenetic traipsing around town. When I finally locate Him, I recognize Him at once. He is just as some said He was and nothing like others claimed. Unpretentious, breath-taking, accessible, living amongst ordinary people, His gate not barred from hungry believers like me, but, on the contrary, swung wide, wide open.




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back to top22 Comments to “The not-so-pearly gates”
Really?
I think I wish it were so. I wish I could just drive up to his house, knock on the door, and there he’d be.
It ain’t so Joe.
If anything God’s gotta find me. I couldn’t find his eternal, omnipresent self even if you put me and him in the same proverbial paper bag. I don’t have the capacity to detect him, even when he is here….
And neither do you.
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Does Stephen King invite people to visit him? Frankly, after he was so badly injured, I would think he’d avoid strangers.
I understand you’re trying to draw a parallel between your hunt for a celebrity and your not so diligent hunt for God, but this “stalking” bothered me all the same.
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Wow, what cheesy comments. Make it man, do you know for sure that other people don’t have the capacity to know God?
Michelle, you call driving by someone’s house stalking?
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Becoolman,
I didn’t say no one had the capacity to know God. I said you and no one else has the capacity to detect him. As in, the five senses….
You seen him yet? If so, I concede the point. If not, detract your insult.
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#2 I tend to be with Michelle, and I also consider this post a rather strained one. Stephen King is a talented writer (who tends to fixate on rather unwholesome things).
Well, then maybe there is a link there.
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Everyone gets sick. Everyone eventually dies; sometimes by misadventure; sometimes by evil intent; mostly by illness.
This horrifies all of us. It doesn’t seem fair that we get sick and eventually die. We’ve come a long way from when we consulted witch doctors and prayed a lot. Now we can transplant hearts and even mortally ill people stave off death quite a while. Steve Jobs of Apple just got a new lease on life with a new liver.
As we strive to prolong life with more and more complicated technology, we will encounter more and more dilemmas and more and more unfairness. Not everyone can pay for a transplant. Even when the money is available, there are not enough people on deathbeds with healthy organs to “harvest.”
Our culture of life is going to start turning into a dog eat dog world and a culture of survival of the richest and the best connected. We will have to start saying “No,” whether we base it on your pocketbook or your connection to a political leader, or your skin color, or your sexual preference … or
Welcome to a not very brave new world.
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Aldous Huxley was interesting. Especially back in my more prurient days. Now I just find his work laborious. As well as fatalistic. Most predictions of the future are inaccurate as anyone who has ever bought a lottery ticket or bet on a horse race.
I enjoyed Amy’s post. We can’t know what we will learn tomorrow. For if we could truly tell what we would learn tomorrow , we would have to already have learned it.
But God hath chosen the foolish things of the world to confound the wise; and God hath chosen the weak things of the world to confound the things which are mighty 1 Corinthians 1:27
As diligently as we seek, it is only by God’s Grace that we find. The wonderful thing is we are told that if we do seek that we will find. Our job is to keep seeking.
I have to wonder if Stephen King would have enjoyed Amy’s wanderings? Would he have rejoiced when she finally found his house? Would God?
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Amy, I get what you were trying to write. You were not stalking, just on a curious discovery adventure. The way that it relates to our search for God is that we too many times get caught up in the worldly ways of doing things and the whole process thing when the whole time He is right there, just around the corner. God has “found” us, we need to stop and find Him.
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I’m sorry, but I work in publishing. You would be astonished at the bizarre things fans do–and how even our literary agency has been threatened. We advise all our writers to have a PO box and to be very carefully about what they say about their homes.
We live in a sick world and people do strange things. I can’t bear to watch the movie Misery.
And for the record, I don’t believe Amy meant any harm–it just made my personal hair stand on end because of what I’ve seen and heard.
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Make it man, the entire point of the blog was that God is not empirically detectable, but rather immediately apprehendable. As Alvin Plantinga would say, belief in God is properly basic.
Michelle, fair enough.
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“…the entire point of the blog was that God is not empirically detectable, but rather immediately apprehendable.“
Sorry, BCoolMan…
I’m a bit touchy on this subject anyway, and when you called it a “cheesy comment” I bristled. I’ll put it away now…
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MiM,
If I might interject?
I think you were trying to make a comment about man’s inability to seek God on his own, without having first been regenerated and drawn by His Spirit. I would wholeheartedly agree with you there.
But that is not the same thing as agreeing with Paul in Romans 1:19-20 [my ital]:
God clearly shows His invisible attributes to men who are dead in trespasses and sin, but until they are made alive, they couldn’t care less.
Is that the gist of what you were getting at?
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Frank, I might have a different viewpoint on that. I believe that the Holy Spirit is working on us all. Attempting to regenerate those who definitely require it. I believe all thirst and hunger for God. And that many seek God. But they may seek him in different places and in different ways. And some have unfortunately tried to shut off routes to seeking God. But I also think that many people are like the Grinch when his heart expanded after realising Christmas was more than just presents. It can happen in the twinkling of an eye. I believe that the Holy Spirit has laid a lot of ground work. It is just truly beautiful to see someone come to the Lord.
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#1, MIM, I may even have a different take on perceiving God. Yes God can come to you. I frequently sense God’s hand in things that happen around me. And I have felt His comfort and Grace when I have been in various ‘paper bags.’ I detect His presence frequently when I am mountain climbing. I also detect him when I am flying at altitude. When I have slipped the surly bonds of earth and dance on laughter silvered wings and joined the tumbling mirth of sun split clouds, I detect God with me.
I detect Him when I minister to someone the rest of the world has forgotten. I always ask for guidance as to what I should be saying. I detect Him when I counsel clergy or go to visit a church He asks me to visit.
I thank Him every day for adopting me. God is our Father, not only in Heaven but here on earth and anyplace in between. It is a very rare day indeed when I do not detect God.
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On second thought… NO, I will not put this away…
I am deeply disturbed by the use of words which seem to intimate that we can detect and experience God emperically.
The phrases; “Personal Relationship” and “Immediately Apprehendable” are both uses of words which seem to intimate that we can drive up to His house, knock on the door, and shake his hand…. Even the illustration given in this blog seems to indicate that. “He’s just around the corner”.
I protest the use of such words. I insist that you explain what you mean by them. (As a side note, what I mean by “paper bag” is that I couldn’t find my way out of one when it comes to “finding God”. It’s definitely not an experience of “comfort and grace”.)
In Monty’s experience, he means that he feels God to be near in his experience of the Creation. Or in his experience ministering to people. The problem is, for me at least, that it’s a feeling, not a verifiable emperical “fact”. This knowledge is “experiential”.
You see, I’ve been struggling with something Francis Schaeffer said to me over 25 years ago… “I am more certain of God’s existence, than I am of my wife Edith’s existence.”
Really!?
I’m not sure what to do with that.
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Amy, good thoughts.
Make It Man, your comments occasioned these reflections, which I hope will be helpful in some way.
An ancient Christian prayer, prayed daily by Eastern Orthodox believers reads:
“O Heavenly King, O Comforter, Spirit of Truth, Who art everywhere present and fillest all things . . . ”
Scripture tells us that in Christ “we live and move and have our being.” The abstract rational thinking of philosophers like Francis Schaeffer has its place, but Orthodox value experiential knowledge of God, Who is present by His Spirit also in the heart of every believer. However, as a Russian child famously observed, it requires purity of heart to see God (in response to an Atheist cosmonaut’s claim of having disproved the existence of God by going into space and not empirically discovering Him there!) I’m not suggesting we can put God under a microscope or discover Him with our material eyes if we have a strong enough telescope, but if we are unable to actually experience God in some way, then we might as well be atheists ourselves, because it is not “belief” in God as rational assent to philosophical abstractions that saves and changes us, but the experience of being loved by God. I have found many helpful insights on the subject of a “one-vs.-two storey universe” that might be helpful to others interested in understanding how it is that God intersects our world and our lives, and how our modern mindset and reliance on empiricism and materialism infects even the beliefs of Christians, thereby muddying our our spiritual eyes and clouding the biblical teaching on this issue: http://www.fatherstephen.wordpress.com/
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Clarification, I have found many helpful insights on the subject of the “one-vs. two-storey univierse” at Father Stephen Freeman’s site (link in my comment above. Thanks.
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You see, I’ve been struggling with something Francis Schaeffer said to me over 25 years ago… “I am more certain of God’s existence, than I am of my wife Edith’s existence.”
Really!?
I’m not sure what to do with that.
I would take it at face value. Because that is my experience as well.
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What makes you so certain?
It’s certainly not the emperical evidence. His wife was certainly more material than God is.
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MiM the word is spelled “EmpirIcal” with an “I”
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Make It Man – Remember that “we walk by faith, not by sight”. For one who needs empirical evidence, that would be difficult to grasp, & yet it is essential for the Christian to grasp this concept.
I wish I had the perfect answer for you, but all I can do is pray that God will lead you through this struggle. Don’t feel alone in this. Many of us, if not most, have a struggle with one biblical precept &/or concept or another. Sometimes it takes years to reach the other side of the struggle.
But we need to keep walking in faith, seeking His wisdom, seeking Him, & trust, trust, trust (& obey, of course).
If you didn’t need my impromptu little sermonette here, then maybe it’s for someone else who does. God bless!
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Make It Man,
I’m where you are (as you probably know from previous discussions on this topic). After over three decades as a Christian and no greater sense of certainty than when I was a new Christian (but much less anxiety as a result of the lack of certainty), I am coming to suspect that some people simply have a greater capacity for that kind of certainty than others.
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