N.Y. Journal: Mark Gastineau “grows up”
Two stories of redemption interlaced at the New York City Rescue Mission last Monday: one in the lives of destitute men who depend on the luck of the draw for a bed at a mission, and one in the life of a man who made $65,000 a week at the height of his pro football career.
New York City Mayor Michael Bloomberg declared last week “Souper Bowl Week” to highlight the work of homelessness organizations, and The New York City Rescue Mission brought in former New York Jets All-Pro defensive end Mark Gastineau to help serve food.
The people who come to NYCRM can have a meal with no strings attached, but if they want a bed they have to sit through a chapel service. The mission feeds people for as long as its food supply lasts. But because of its limited space, it has to have a lottery to determine who will stay the night. If it’s below 32 degrees, the city authorizes the mission to provide emergency services. Then staff can spread cots and blankets in the chapel, a room with walls adorned with Scripture like “How can we neglect so great salvation?” If it’s 33 degrees, the many homeless are out of luck.
Monday’s menu included Italian wedding soup with spicy meatballs and vegetables bobbing in broth, chicken noodle soup, roast chicken, and salad. The soup was courtesy of the “Original Soup Man,” the company begun by Al Yeganeh, the inspiration for the “Soup Nazi” of Seinfeld fame—a crotchety character on the show but known in real life as a generous man who gave soup away to the homeless and hungry.
One woman, who was impressed, asked if they fed people every night. A regular named John said, yes, “but they don’t feed like this every night.” Sometimes there is just macaroni and cheese, he added. He said he was a carpenter who had made mistakes but knew it. Just out of detox and now staying at the mission, John spoke of forgiveness and faith: “I’m not religious, but I follow Jesus.”
Gastineau has a rocky history himself—a player known for his cockiness on the field, his domestic struggles off the field, and his use of steroids. He spent 11 months at Riker’s Island prison. Then, according to ESPN, he attended Times Square Church in New York City as part of a church-sponsored program for first-time offenders. He found Christianity and said, “God gave Mark Gastineau his son Jesus. . . . He died on the cross and I’m forgiven for everything. I could not go on if it wasn’t for that. ”
But he tells me that he encountered God for the first time much earlier, when he broke his leg at age 10. It got infected—”I could see right through it,” Gastineau remembers—and the deep scar is still there. Doctors were afraid he would never walk again, but his mom, who was attending a Baptist church, told him the congregation was praying for him. He went on to walk again—and then become one of the quickest and most-feared pass rushers in the NFL.
“I thought I was God,” he said—until he lost his rich accoutrements and found his way back.
And here Gastineau is now, sitting across from a group of homeless men and reminiscing about his glory days on the gridiron. Some of the men are camera-shy but others are thrilled have their pictures taken with him and ask the photographer to send them the photos.
One older man looks at him in wonder: “You got old,” he says. “Yeah I did,” Gastineau replies. “I grew up.”













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back to top6 Comments to “N.Y. Journal: Mark Gastineau “grows up””
About 15 years ago we took 28 kids from our youth group and local Lutheran high-school to Chicago, mostly to visit the Lutheran college (Concordia) there, but also to do some sight-seeing and touristy things. On Saturday night we went to the Pacific Garden Mission, originators of the long-running radio drama “Unshackled.” We got to see the taping of an episode and, being in the audience, became the “congregation” singing a hymn in the story. As they advertise, if you let them know you are coming, you can eat dinner with the residents there, which we did. All agreed that it was an unforgettable experience.
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Alisa Harris, Gastineau was scamming folks long before you were born and will continue just as this article is the witness. It is this kind of convenient Christianity that allows a person to sin over and over and still get an article about the one time he did some good but do not forget the times he neglected his own children for other women, drugs and fame just as this article proves.
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SKYS,
I trust Alissa’s judgment in presenting this man’s story. A VERY brief googling seems to indicate that his daughter is grown now, and he sure as heck isn’t famous anymore in any generous definition of the term. Assuming that he, like the rest of us, can’t turn back time, there’s simply no way for you to prove him wrong, which makes him an easy target.
Plus, Christianity is the story of Redemption itself, no matter how often or flagrantly one has transgressed. While you may delight in examples of fellow saints who’ve always followed the straight and narrow, the rest of us poor sinners need to know there’s hope for us. End communication.
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The people who come to NYCRM can have a meal with no strings attached, but if they want a bed they have to sit through a chapel service.
Good thing there are always poor people around to make others appreciate how well off we are. Rubbing their noses in your religion I guess provides a special spice to the meal for the donors.
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Random,
If NYC were the 1st century Levant, and the people who came to this mission were farmers whose crops had been seized by the Roman Army, or travelers who’d been waylaid by brigands, then putting any conditions on their charity would indeed be pointless. But in this most wealthy society in human history, the vast majority of those in severe material need are there in conjunction with some spiritual sickness. And yes, those pernicious donors truly believe that Jesus can provide at least the opportunity for recovery, not only in the next life, but in this one.
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John M. if you read the “googles” you can see Gastineau had another child, a son. Instead of spending time trying to raise his son he never was there for him. Instead he stole money, drugs and time from many people who bought his “redemption religion” time and time again. Many could prove him wrong if they indeed wanted to be the judge – yet choose to let the Lord judge him in His time.
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