Life and death
Sometimes the worst headlines aren’t the ones that poorly describe a news story but the ones that plainly describe it. Consider this headline coming out of Greenville, S.C., last Saturday: “Newborn baby found in Bi-Lo Center toilet.”
It’s a terrible headline to absorb because it describes a terrible horror: A pregnant mother walks into an arena bathroom during a performance of Ringling Bros. Circus on a Friday night, delivers a 6-pound baby boy into a toilet, and leaves him to choke and freeze in the cold, dirty water.
Amazingly, a cleaning crew found the baby alive but suffering from hypothermia. The workers administered life-saving aid until paramedics arrived, and doctors upgraded the newborn’s condition from critical to good within five days.
The boy’s mother surrendered to police: Jessica Blackham, 24, is a married mother of a 4-year-old child. Authorities didn’t elaborate on Blackham’s mindset but charged her with two counts of felony child abuse and one count of unlawful neglect toward a child. If a jury convicts her on all charges, Blackham faces up to 50 years in prison.
The story evokes gut-wrenching questions: What kind of evil or desperation could hurl this young mother to the depths of deadly abandonment? Blackham’s need for Christ-centered intervention aimed at repentance, redemption, and restoration is profound. One hopes she’ll somehow encounter gospel-saturated counsel, not merely state-ordered treatment.
A broader question: Why do crimes like these invoke outrage in a country that allows some 1.2 million abortions a year? The Guttmacher Institute reports that 23 percent of abortionists in the United States abort unborn children after 20 weeks, and that 11 percent abort at 24 weeks—both within the range of viability outside the womb.
The difference must be the perception: For many, a baby’s remains discarded in a medical pail are more palatable than a baby left in a toilet, though the deadly intention is the same. Planned Parenthood CEO Jill June, recently complaining about pro-life activists in Iowa, pointed out that only six abortions in the state took place after the 20th week in 2009. Pan back to the Bi-Lo Center: Imagine “only” six babies abandoned in toilets.
Now a deeper question: Why should every man, woman, and child identify with this abandoned baby boy? I spent days trying to avoid the mental image of a shivering infant gasping for breath and wallowing in blood, utterly abandoned and helpless. It was too horrible to contemplate—until I realized that I was just like him.
Consider how God describes His own children in Ezekiel 16:
“And as for your birth, on the day you were born your cord was not cut, nor were you washed with water to cleanse you, nor rubbed with salt, nor wrapped in swaddling cloths. No eye pitied you, to do any of these things to you out of compassion for you, but you were cast out on the open field, for you were abhorred, on the day that you were born.”
But the story didn’t end there:
“And when I passed by you and saw you wallowing in your blood, I said to you in your blood, ‘Live!’. . . I made my vow to you and entered into a covenant with you, declared the Lord GOD, and you became mine. Then I bathed you with water and washed off your blood and anointed you with oil.”
Here is the reality of being born into sin. Here is every man apart from Christ: helpless, abandoned, and dying. And here is a Father who does not leave His children in a toilet but gives life and cleanses sin in a mysterious way: by leaving His own Son to death, raising Him on our behalf, and adopting us as His own.
Back in Greenville, the Department of Social Services is fielding calls from families asking about adopting the baby boy recovering in the hospital. If his father can’t properly care for him, hopefully a loving family will complete his rescue by folding him into their home.
In his book Adopted for Life, Russell Moore recounts adopting his two sons from their own pit—a squalid orphanage in Russia. On the day he and his wife retrieved the 1-year-old boys from the grim orphanage, he watched them reaching back for the only home they had ever known. The little boys couldn’t imagine the abundant life their parents had planned for them.
Moore says the experience reminded him of his own adoption by a Heavenly Father, and the folly of losing sight of his inheritance in Christ. He says he often remembers his sons’ little hands reaching for the orphanage: “And I see myself there.”
When I think about the baby boy recovering in a Greenville hospital, I like to think about him warmly swaddled in a soft blanket, eating every two hours, and cuddling with kind nurses. But I also can’t help imagining his first hours in that stadium toilet—all that he was apart from a dramatic rescue. And I see myself there.

















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Tears come to my eyes as I think of this child unable to help himself. This should speak to the helplessness of these little ones wither unborn, recently born or early years. Abortion has lowered the value of human life, unborn to elderly.
I can only speculate to the mindset of this young mother to cause her to do such a terrible act. God help her, her family and especially the newborn boy.
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What a sad story, but definitely a wonderful reminder of the mercy we receive from Jesus Christ.
I suppose we can be somewhat proud of ourselves as a country, that when a child has been born and abandoned, we still care. This poor, little boy would certainly have been left for dead in other countries around the world. What a strange place we are, America.
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Jamie,
The above is a really great article!
Thanks!
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I agree with Rondu – this is a moving essay.
This woman left one baby for dead. There are even more egregious cases, like a French woman who killed eight of her babies:
http://www.islandmix.com/backchat/f6/mother-kills-her-8-babies-221284/
or a Philadelphia woman who killed five of her babies:
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/39839188/ns/us_news-crime_and_courts/
As I recall, there was another Philadelphia case in recent years of killing seven or eight babies, and the mother god a slap on the wrist. I also recall reading some thoughtful commentary on that case regarding how, since legalization of abortion, the value society places on very young children as crime victims has gone down.
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I agree with Rondu, this is a moving article.
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Becky F: You mean the taxpayer money spent on rescuing, transporting, treating, caring for, and presumably raising this child for some period of time does not constitute “big government”? How many of the paramedics, police, fire, social service agency folks, and government lawyers involved or likely to be involved in this life saving process do you think should be subject to pay cuts or layoffs as state services are reduced?
Do you characterize these folks as governmentally employed leeches or as those who help deliver the mercy of Jesus about which you write?
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Arcadia, police, firemen, and paramedics tend to be funded by local government. They are not a part of the wasteful spending many here point out. Most people here support cutting pretty much everything else except military and this.
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Rom116 – see my response to you on the other thread about why it’s best not to feed trolls.
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I find this so strange. To abort a baby is not criminal, but to deliver a baby into a toilet and abandon it IS criminal.
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Arcadia, if people in America did not devalue the life of babies, we would not need emergency workers to rescue them.
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Which thread Buzzy?
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Kyle’s Law: The more the liberal commenters believe that we have the moral high ground, the more they bring up irrelevant issues and straw men.
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Preliminary stuff makes this woman sound mentally ill. The child will be way better off in the hands of a loving married couple. She has a 4 yr old already and I’m concerned for that child’s safety.
If she is mentally ill/incapacitated can she effectively give consent to anything [adoption paperwork, consent to intercourse etc]?
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Rom116 – the one about the pharmacy giving the pregnant lady the wrong drug.
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#12 I’ll bet it’s more likely that she is drug addicted, which will be easily verified with tests from the baby. And which doesn’t make this anymore tolerable. Even the thought of adding to her burden day to day by acknowledging this child may have been more than she could bear. Even so, there are remedies for that in almost every state. You can drop children off as newborns at most Human Services agencies and they will not charge you for abandonment. I’m not sure that most desparate people know this, but it’s good to spread the word.
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And I can’t help but respond to Arcadia….YES! Yes, these rescue agencies may have to get along with fewer people and less substantial benefit packages while we dig ourselves out of this mess we’ve made. I know people will whine, but 30 years ago mistakes were made and things were promised that shouldn’t have been to our civil servants. I am confident that this baby would have survived anyway, even if a stadium custodian wrapped him in a blanket and drove him to the hospital himself. God made us in an amazing way.
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Excellent article, Jamie!
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thanks
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Until we, as a culture, make adoption thinkable for those in unplanned pregnancy, we will have more and more situations like this. And we will have more and more fatherless children and more and more abortions. We need to get the voices of birthmothers out there saying, “Adoption was right for me and right for my child.” And we need to applaud those who make the sacrifically loving decision to entrust their babies to adoptive families.
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SocialWorker: Yes, these rescue agencies may have to get along with fewer people and less substantial benefit packages while we dig ourselves out of this mess we’ve made. I know people will whine…
…and some will die, but that’s the Christian Way? Or the Republican Way?
By the way, if you are a social worker and, presumably, work for a gov’t agency, are you underworked at present?
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Imagine how many more will most definitely die and be without any care at all if the US gov’t and dollar were to collapse due to overbearing debt. Again, most of these rescue agencies are employed on the local gov’t level, and thus would not be greatly affected by state cuts like, lets say, highways.
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Data show eighty percent of babies aborted and forty percent of babies born here in the U.S. are to unwed women. Changing our society’s mindset on premarital sex is the answer. So how do you all think this can be done?
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This poor woman grew up with abortion being ok.
Didn’t someone once say that it is only a person when the mother wants it. How much of that is drummed into HIGH SCHOOL students?
Why is she a criminal because she didn’t pay a doctor to abort her child? Which brings us back to people saying, “See, if it were free and covered by “healthcare” then she wouldn’t be going to jail.”
PLEASE! STOP the MADNESS and MURDER of INNOCENT CHILDREN!!!
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Buddy, I don’t think we can turn back the tide on fornication in “the world.” I think we do need to take this very, very seriously in the church, and I do think broken hearts and lives offer a chance for serious evangelism. But fornication is simply not seen as a sin anymore, and I don’t see any way to reverse that on a cultural level.
I heard some radio preacher, maybe Swindoll or MacArthur but I don’t remember for sure who it was, make a statement a couple of weeks ago that in most cultures, sin is shameful, and in ours it’s celebrated. I mentally went through a list of sins, and I honestly couldn’t think of one that’s seens as shameful in ALL circumstances! Pride is definitely good, and so are covetousness and greed. Sexual sins are simply expressing love; though we may frown on some specific ones such as pedophilia, illicit sex itself has few speaking against it. Murder is definitely OK if we’re talking about abortion; lying and deceit are OK if your “motives” are right (and we aren’t even talking about only honorable motives, but lying for self-advancement is OK). Anger and violence and so on are simply “the way it is” in our culture. Nothing actually horrifies us anymore except the occasional act with visible victims (open adultery, or mass murder). Sin really is cool.
I don’t think we’re going to reverse that. It’s a heart issue, and only Christ can change a culture in this sort of free-fall. But as long as the church accepts “fornication is no big deal” and we aren’t offering living examples of a better way, this isn’t going to change.
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This has nothing to do with free healthcare. A woman in labor could have walked into a hospital at any time and they would have delivered the child and she could have given it up for adoption. I don’t know what she’s been through or what possessed her to just leave the baby in the toilet. I can understand someone so beside her that she would do that. She is a criminal because she left a baby in a toilet rather than just hand it to someone, a security guard. Someone would have helped her if she’d asked. I’m sure of it. I’m sorry she felt so alone, but if we condone these actions, we have devalued life even more than we did when we went along with abortion. Let’s not up the ante from before they’re born to right after they’re born.
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Cheryl,
I think that in any culture, to the degree to which the given culture departs from God, it celebrates every one of those sins in some form, doesn’t it?
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Did it strike anyone else strange that a woman with a 4-year-old son would be going to the circus without bringing the son? Obviously there could be circumstances that might explain this, but when I read it, it just seemed to emphasize her childish, self-centered mindset, especially in light of what she ended up doing.
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Could she have been working there?
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The stories I read said that she went to the circus with her sister. Nothing about her being an employee.
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This is not child neglect, this is attempted murder. And what is wrong with this Dean woman. What does abortion have to do with trying to murder a baby. Another Bible thumping freak who hasn’t even read the bible, and also has never had an original thought in her entire worthless life.
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To Queenyokai: I agree with you! What does abortion have to do with trying to murder a baby? By dictionary definition: Abortion (uh-bawr-shuhn) – 1) the removal of an embryo or fetus from the uterus in order to end a pregnancy. 2)any of various surgical methods for terminating a pregnancy. You’re right, Queen, abortion isn’t TRYING to murder a baby, it IS murdering a baby. By definition: Baby (b?’b?) – 1) A very young child; an infant. 2) An unborn child; a fetus.
As for the “Dean woman”… it is QUITE apparent she has not only READ and studied the Bible (many times OBVIOUSLY) but has taken its truths and applied them to her heart and life. Her “thoughts” may not qualify as “original” in your mind, but they are truths that were gleaned by obviously spending quite a bit of time in His Word and in prayer with her Lord and Saviour Jesus Christ.
Thank you “Dean woman” for a very inspiring, Biblical and thought-provoking article. Keep up the amazing writing, dear woman! There will be many jewels in your crown!!
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#19 And I believe we can honestly say that people have died in unfortunate situations since the beginning of time. That doesn’t mean that we can put our grandchildren into unfathomable debt because we want the convenience of 3 people holding our hands at a traffic accident rather than 2. I have a social worker’s license and I advocate for abused and neglected children who go through the court system. And it’s interesting that you would ask if I am underworked. Last year and this year have been the first time in the 22 years I’ve done this work that I actually have some breathing room. The Human Services agency in our county has begun to approach cases differently. THey aren’t bringing EVERY sad situation into the court. They are connecting families with services (some faith based, some family support)and asking them to solve things voluntarily without going before the Judge. It turns out it’s just not necessary. I’m not naive enough to believe that some child isn’t going to slip through the cracks, but that happened previously also when we were all doing our paperwork because mom left fingerprints on Johnny’s little arm.
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Queenyokai, original and illogical are not the same thing. Nothing new is true and nothing true is new.
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My understanding of the gospel is we come to the reality that we are a sinner and therefore need the Savior (Jesus) to save us. So what does he save us from? From our sins that sentence us to everlasting torment.
If the sin label is removed from actions we are saying we know more than God (like Eve).
The last few decades have seen the Church fall into the trap of man pleasing rather than God pleasing. “Be positive” is heard frequently. The identification of what sin is not heard because that is “not positive”. The consequences of sin in our lives are not heard because that is labeled “Legalism”.
God is wise and loves us enough to call some things sin. Sin damages or destroys relationships. He wants us to have the best relationships and the primary one he wants is between you and him. To know God is to love him.
When the “True and Full Gospel” is once again preached in this country we will see the abortion count go down because fornication will be seen for what it truly is, a life and relationship destroying action. The Church will then be the “salt and light” it should be.
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Buddy, we’ll see the abortion rate go down only if people believe the gospel. We can preach the true gospel all we want, but if people don’t have ears to hear, then “hearing it” won’t change lives.
But really and truly, the gospel is our only hope.
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