Warning others of abortion’s side effects and regrets

DES MOINES, Iowa—Justine Kyker traveled from Nebraska Thursday to be at the site of an unwelcome memory: The last time she had passed through the doors of the unassuming, low brick building behind her was Sept. 1, 1988, and she was 19 years old.
Pregnant and unmarried, Kyker had gone to a family doctor, talked at length, and looked at photos of couples hoping to adopt. “That was my plan: to place the baby for adoption,” she said. At the advice of one friend, she decided to call this Planned Parenthood clinic first.
On the phone, a Planned Parenthood staff member asked Kyker how far along she was. She didn’t know, but guessed three months, and said so. Kyker said she was told to come in right away and bring $200 cash.
She then disregarded her previous plan to give up her baby for adoption, going against the prior discussions with her family and her doctor. “I didn’t think about the humanity of the baby,” Kyker said. Unwilling to go to a family member for the money she needed, she took back her college textbooks for the upcoming semester to raise the $200. . . . MORE >>

















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back to top22 Comments to “Warning others of abortion’s side effects and regrets”
Some women do say they don’t regret having an abortion. How many say they regret having given birth to their child?
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What a story….. May God Bless her.
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I wish more would admit this and say so.
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There are a lot of them out there. I heard many such stories when I worked for the Network on a pro-life show. I know two women who had abortions. One miscarried the twin that the clinic missed in gym class and the other was forced by her father to have her fist abortion and her doctor to have her second.
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There must be many ways that Justine and the maybe millions of other women like her could band together and be a might voice and action to help other women see the lie of choice and blob and choose sexual honesty and love for the life of the one she carries.
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As well as for her own life. We have not protected our girls as a society.
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I’m sure the Bitter one will reply shortly.
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I pray for the wisdom not to judge, not to chastise, but to meet each person where they are and point them to the one that can heal. So many have been so damaged..
On the other hand, maybe if all those who are silently suffering with similar stories would speak…or even sue PP or other providers for emotional distress…hmmm.
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Healing and forgiveness. Completely from Christ if she or anyone would ask.
If your state doesnt have a sonogram law please work to enact one!
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Amen, Sawgunner, that’s a dealbreaker!
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And now we have a new study linking significant mental health problems with abortion. I wrote about it on my blog today.
http://applyingmybeliefs.wordpress.com/2011/09/02/another-cost-of-abortion/
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#11 Yes, I read that yesterday. I long await the same type of study that will link breast cancer and abortion.
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Fives55, such studies have been done, and for a while pregnancy centers were citing them. But recent studies in that area have been “inconclusive,” so pregnancy centers have pulled back from citing them, or have started saying there “may” be a link.
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There is a place for both women and men to gather and talk about/and advocate against abortion. It is a group called Silent No More.
http://www.silentnomoreawareness.org/
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Thanks KAYOU. Wasn’t aware this still existed.
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I had an abortion 30 years ago. I was 12weeks, and had no idea how developed the baby was. What hurt me so hard was how developed the ears are in a 12week unborn baby. I have a daughter now, I look at her ears and think I did 30 thirty years ago. What precious life is, and what a human can do to another another human
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I also had an abortion and struggled like Justine for 13 years until I found Healing Hearts Ministries International http://www.healinghearts.org. There are free Bible studies on the website and you are discipled through the study by a trained counselor. After that, the prison door was opened for me. I am still amazed at the grace that Jesus has poured out on me by giving me 3 children, despite what I did to my first one. I am a great sinner, but I have a GREAT SAVIOR!
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GUEST350, your daughter is blessed to have you for a mother. Our forgiving God will continue to bless you in your new life. I pray for you in sharing your experience to help ease or avert the pain of others. Any advice for the rest of us?
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JBASHORE, He is a great Savior to all of us in all our sins. Thanks for the link. God bless you in your testimony helping others. Your role as a mother now is a powerful teaching testimony to the loving forgiveness of Him who created and keeps us.
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Therefore in Christ there is NO condemnation. Think of it! Redeemed! What else out there compares, or what else out there has the power to to change tragedy into blessings.
Thx #16 and 17
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When your own heart is telling you “don’t do this,” and you go against your heart’s voice, the pain is incredible and the time it takes to heal can be very long. For me, it took me 23 years to forgive myself. The Lord had forgiven me immediately, but the harvest of a decision is always later, and more. Example: If I plant 1 kernal of corn, that 1 kernal will harvest later and gain 2 ears which is over 200 kernals, we do reap what we sow, sow to the flesh we reap corruption, so to the spirit we reap eternal life. I am so thankful for the blood of Jesus Christ that has been shed for all sin, past, present, and future, we just need to believe and receive His love and forgiveness for ourselves and others. I have gained His peace in my heart for He paid a debt He did not owe, I owed a debt I could not pay.
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I just met Justine today in a very serendipitous way! We each thought the other looked familiar though we never had met one another. One thing led to another and here I am commenting on her testimonial. What a beautiful woman she has become. Her countenance confirms this story.
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